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The MAD Blog Awards 2016


Six months or so ago I asked, and you nominated. You answered my emploring requests in such numbers in fact that four months ago I just about fell off my chair when I learnt that I was to be a MADs finalist, and then you put up with me asking for votes all over again.  Thank you so very very much.

Several months of waiting later, it was finally time, and in a day about as different to an ordinary Friday as I could possibly get, I took the day off work and headed to London.

In everyday life I rarely wear makeup and my idea of a hairstyle is brushing it, tying it up, and forgetting about it so to sit and be prinked and curled to within an inch of my life was luxury beyond my dreams.  Actually the sitting still in a chair for half an hour without anyone saying “Mummeeeeee!” or “Carie, can I have a minute …” was bliss by itself; I was so relaxed I think I almost fell asleep having my makeup done.  The Powderpuff Girls are amazing and I came from their ministrations feeling effortlessly glamorous, beautifully tall (6’4″ in those heels) and yet still very recognisably me.

Space for the Butterflies - the MAD Blog Awards 2016

And then the fun began; time to catch up with friends and make new ones, to sip champagne and play fake money roulette, to take photos together and to celebrate this funny little thing called blogging.

Space for the Butterflies - the MAD Blog Awards 2016

I didn’t win Best Craft Blog, that honour went to the wonderfully named The Imagination Tree, but I am truly honoured to have been one of those six finalists.  There is so much creativity and ingenuity within that group and to see my Space for the Butterflies header up on the screen still makes me want to sit back and pinch myself that it really truly happened.

Space for the Butterflies - the MAD Blog Awards 2016

Did I want to win? Of course I did, even a healthy does of realistic expectations can’t entirely extinguish a tiny flame of hope, and who wouldn’t want that kind of recognition from their peers (and a rather lovely piece of glass for the mantlepiece to boot)?

I wanted to win, but I’m not disappointed that I didn’t.

To misquote one of my favourite films:

“A MAD Blog Award is a wonderful thing, but if you’re not enough without the Award, you’ll never be enough with it.”

And it’s true, it’s true about everything in life in which there can only be one winner, or so many finalists, no matter whether that’s blog awards or olympic bobsleigh gold medals.  If I could, I would have given an award to every finalist in that room on Friday night; there was no one there who would not have made a worthy winner, but that’s not how it works.

Space for the Butterflies - the MAD Blog Awards 2016

Maybe one day it will be my day, I hope so, and I know I’ll keep asking for your help (apologies in advance for early next year on that one!), but I also know that if I never go to another blog awards final in my life, I will always be proud to have been a finalist and incredibly thankful to every one of you who made that happen.

In being a Craft Blog finalist I hope I showed that being creative while also being a mother doesn’t always mean making something out of pipecleaners, sticky backed plastic and a leftover washing up bottle (though if you do happen to have some pipe cleaners lying around, I have two words for you: Christmas Trees!). I was there for those of us that create beautiful things because it brings us joy (and in my case acts as a fairly efficient form of stress relief – and you get a jumper at the end of it!), as well as having fun getting covered in glitter glue with our kids.

But the very best bit, as always, was the people.  To chat to Amber and Caro and Julia and Lucy and Kirsty in person and whoop with joy when Katie and Jenny won made me day, and I met so many new faces, and heard about so many wonderful blogs that I’ve come home with a list a mile long to add to my feed reader, including Clare, who I met in the queue to makeup, asked the usual “how far have you come today?” conversation opener only to discover that the answer was about three miles from my house.  It’s a small and wonderful world!

Joining Katie at Mummy Daddy Me for The Ordinary Moments

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  • Mandycharlie 18/09/2016 at 7:51 am

    Sending commiserations, and hugs.

  • Laura - dear bear and beany 18/09/2016 at 9:45 am

    You look beautiful and it sounds like a wonderful day and evening. It’s amazing to be a finalist and that is an achievement in itself. X #theordinarymoments

  • Emma Plus Three 18/09/2016 at 11:17 am

    Such an amazing achievement to have been a finalist! Well done and I’m glad you had a great evening x

  • Laura 18/09/2016 at 11:56 am

    You look beautiful! The awards looked like such a fun night! I’d love to go one day, just as a guest, to meet everyone.

  • Laura @ LittleLadiesBigWorld 18/09/2016 at 12:57 pm

    Well done, getting to the finals was such an amazing achievement and you look beautiful and relaxed in that photo! x

  • Tracy 18/09/2016 at 3:02 pm

    Oh, Carie! Congratulations!! How exciting!! (I’ve almost fallen asleep getting my teeth cleaned; falling asleep having your makeup applied sounds far more glamorous) They did a fantastic job of keeping you YOU (every time my sister did my hair and makeup growing up, I looked like her. That wasn’t bad, of course, because she was (is) gorgeous, but it contributed to the feeling that *I* wasn’t. Anyways – they did good 🙂 and you looked beautiful and happy, like you always look – just a little more polished .
    (and how cool that you met someone who lives so close to you!)

  • Katie @mummydaddyme 18/09/2016 at 10:30 pm

    You looked beautiful Carie and I am sad we didn’t get to chat for longer, as is always the way with these things isn’t it? It was a great evening with delicious food and you were in such a tough category. But like you say, just to even being there is really a rather incredible thing isn’t it? And how lovely to have a night off and a bit of a pamper. xx

  • Summer 19/09/2016 at 1:30 am

    Seems like we share the same idea about hair styling at the moment ♥

  • Anna-Marie 19/09/2016 at 5:12 pm

    I think anyone that is nominated as a finalist for a MADS is definitely a winner in my eyes! Sounds like you had an amazing night! Popping over from #TheOrdinaryMoments

  • Rachel @ The Ordinary Lovely 19/09/2016 at 10:57 pm

    Oh Carie, I would have loved you to win. Your blog always stands out for me because of the stories you weave around your craft projects. Even if it’s not something I can do myself (I will never be able to master crochet), I still want to read your posts because I love hearing about who the item is for or seeing which buttons you’ve chosen. I think that’s a real talent x

  • Chloe (Sorry About The Mess) 20/09/2016 at 7:45 am

    Did you just quote Cool Runnings? ; ) That is a very good quote, one definitely worth keeping in mind for a lot of things in life.

    You look really lovely in your photos from the night. I’m glad you had a great time, win or no win.

  • Mary Smith 22/09/2016 at 9:24 pm

    You scrub up well carrie haha no really you look lovely and I can only imagine how great of an evening it was. Any night with some peace and adult convo is a bonus aahhh! I am so glad you were a finalist and had a lovely evening…x

  • Amber 23/09/2016 at 2:49 pm

    Getting to spend an evening with you made the MADs for me, and you looked so wonderful. Let’s not leave it so long next time!

  • Notmyyearoff 27/09/2016 at 7:17 am

    A huge well done for getting to the finals. Your blog is always a brilliant read and you thoroughly deserve your place in the finals. 7 remember going a few years back and it didnfeel blissful to just be pampered for a bit by yourself!! 🙂